体面

在晚宴，同事被安排在同一桌上。
秘书小姐一坐下，斟了一杯色酒。S经理劝她空肚子喝酒容易发醉，她不听。
秘书小姐从舞池回来，说右脚有点儿疼，索性把脚翘在椅子上。我好意提了一句，她不接受。
晚餐是一客烧烤猪扒，上铺火腿。端上时，秘书小姐挑剔的拨开火腿，上下左右研究了一遍之后才放进嘴里，剩下的猪扒都扔下了。S经理责了几句，解释了基本餐桌礼仪，她不理，还说别人管不着。
可能是酒精起了作用，她有点儿醉了。他们的对话少许破坏了原有的气氛。这使我看清楚某些人的真性格。

Wedding Party

Was invited by my colleague Mr.B to his wedding party yesterday night. The folks dance was going round and round, with synchronized dance steps in pace with music, was fun!

Organizing party is a tiring assignment to me. Mom always said, if W is on the list, X has to be invited (should not be offended); Y is very close to us, his whole family should come along; Z is the respectful elder in our family clan etc. So end up, the party would be crammed with half a thousand guests.

If I would have my wedding party someday, I would only invite controllable crowd and those I know well, ensure that all my guests will be taken care of and no one is neglected. A feast is not necessary at all.

己所不欲,勿施於人

TP gave me some comments on my webpage today. Spontaneously I gave many "excuses", not awaring of my explanations would portrait defensive cum irresponsible attitude to the other person. He reminded me aptly and made me discovering my own subconcious.

Ridiculously I used to complain my colleagues for not executing their tasks seriously but feeding me various reasons. In fact, I'm not better than them.

The Chinese proverb says, 己所不欲,勿施於人

Thank you TP.

Dermatologist

Went to see the dermatologist this afternoon. The skin problem has been persisting since years. For my 1st visit last week, I paid Euro 6 as consultation fees; and today I paid only Euro 1. Incredibly cheap!!! It would have cost at least 10 times more in my country.... "What" makes the difference?

My Own Blog

Have finally made the decision to have my own blog. No specific reason for it, maybe I just want to voice out my opinion and emotion, or probably I'm feeling lonely in the country doesn't belong to me...